I'm Catholic funky not a junky, and I can tell you yeah, oral sex is looked down on by the Church. So, if you care about the Church then wait till you're married and dont use any kind of birth control... Ever.


However, if you're like the rest of us 'normal' people I say not only should you get a BJ you should maybe eat her out too and maybe even, if you feel you're ready, consider sex (make sure someone is on birth control though).