If life is what we make it than that in itself implies that we can change our perception of reality therefore making our observaions of life invalid because they depend on us and not the truth. Or, perhaps the only way to percieve the world is the way we a precieving it now, that it is the way it is and nothing we do will ever change it. Reality and our perceptions of it are all completely correct for the time that we make them. I prefer the earlier, that our realities arent correct, arent symetrical to the truth.