I would die if one of my boys had been aborted or given up for adoption. Even if they didn't come at the best time in my life, I thank god every day for them. My youngest was born at prolly the roughest point in my life where me and my wife had to live with family because of money and life problems, my wife ended up in a womans shelter during the pregnancy because her mother wanted to kill our child and we just couldn't do it. I thank god every day for his birth, and smile every time I see his face. Even if ya aren't with a woman and you have a child together, you are really and truly a man when you do everything you can for that kid and be there for em always. While kids aren't for everyone, they are for me. So much to teach kids, and watch em grow, and do everything i can for them to make them into great people.