Sweetie, go buy the best seeded pot you can find and use those seeds. Males have football shaped flowers, females have 2 little hairs (usually white) making a "V". Fluoros work fine for indoor grows. "Bag seed" does have a few risks- hermies as an example, if the seeds were fertilized by a hermie plant ( a female with some male flowers) you will get a high % of females, but some of them will be hermies. Hermies are bad if you want to grow seedless bud. However, they are a survival trait in the wild. Go and grow your seeds, kid. Bag seed isn't as good (usually) as the name brands, but there is NOTHING like smoking your own home-grown!