quick post. opinions please

[Greenport]

im trying to move in with my dad cause i miss my life and my moms doing everything in her power to keep me away. shes bringin me to counciling she told my dad i smoked weed, but i dont care. Im gunna find a way to finally be happy livin in ny even if it requires me ratting my mom out with shit she did. Im sick of this live in this shitty ass town were i have no life, wen i live with my dad my best friends r like 3 houses down and i can visit them whenever i want i need opinions please help me.

Greenport Reviewed by Greenport on 10-18-2006. quick post. opinions please im trying to move in with my dad cause i miss my life and my moms doing everything in her power to keep me away. shes bringin me to counciling she told my dad i smoked weed, but i dont care. Im gunna find a way to finally be happy livin in ny even if it requires me ratting my mom out with shit she did. Im sick of this live in this shitty ass town were i have no life, wen i live with my dad my best friends r like 3 houses down and i can visit them whenever i want i need opinions please help me. Rating: 5

[LIP]

What did she do?

Dunno what to suggest.

[3 Sheets To The Wind]

Why aren't you all ready living with him? Just go for it, pally.

[JaggedEdge]

Once your over a certain age and maturity most courts will allow the child to decide. If you are in your teens you sould be able to live with which ever parent you like. If your dad has the money (which he may not living in an expensive area like NY) he could take your mom to family court I suppose. You would tell the judge you want to live with your dad. Most courts won't tell the kid no unless something comes out that may suggest your dad isn't fit to raise you.

Other than that, if your mom won't let you go, I'm not sure what to suggest. It also sounds like it depends if there is shared custody or if your mom has full custody.

When I was about 14 I told my mom I wanted to live with my dad. She broke down crying so I figured I would just deal for the next few years. It wasn't worth breaking her heart over it.

[MyMARYJANE]

tell ur mom your gonna leave

[smok3y]

Just tell your mum straight " look bitch im going to stay with my dad and there aint shit your gonna do to stop me"... lol

Have you spoke to your dad about it? Ask him to try help you out and get your mum to let you stay in ny..
Hope it goes all good! peace