condom - to use or not to use?

[someuser]

And BTW I am neither psycho nor a bitch; I am simply a woman who takes protecting myself seriously. If that offends you, perhaps you should consider going solo.

Or, maybe, if it offends you so much you could either consider going 'solo' yourself or just choose not to read messages you cannot emotionally handle :dance:

[Fengzi]

I posted this a while back, first time this topic came up, but it seems prudent to post it again

Back when I was in college I met this chick at a dorm party. I was normally careful but we had been drinking a bit, I didn't have a condom, she said she was on the pill, and that pussy just looked too good to pass up. Well, one morning about a week later I took a piss and was like "yeeoow, what the fuck..? That hurts". Later that day I noticed this funky yellow/green pus started leaking out of my dick. Nasty shit I tell you. Every time I'd take a piss it would hurt like hell. I might as well have been pissing flaming napalm, actually that might have been more pleasant. It got to the point where I had gotten seriously dehydrated because I didn't want to drink anything since I was afraid to piss.

So, after a couple of days I realized it wasn't going to go away and I went to the doc. It was a lovely visit. Yeah, right! First of all it's pretty embarassing. The doc grabs my dick and starts milking it for pus like i'm a god damn cow or somehting. Then comes "the test". Have you ever had a test for strep throat? You know that long q-tip thing they stick down your throat to get a culture? Well, the doc pulls one of these things out and puts some lube on it. I'm thinking "what the fuck??" when he grabs my dick and puts the q-tip thing way fucking up inside. Jesus Christ! Pissing flaming napalm was a hell of a lot better.

Turns out I had chlamydia, a STD. Fortunately I got some antibiotics and got it cleared up. These days, if all you get is chlamydia you can consider yourself lucky. If you get aids the doctor doesn't prescribe an antibiotic to get rid of the disease. He will only prescribe lots of different medications to, hopefully, prolong your life a bit longer. I'm married now, wife's on the pill, and I don't need condoms anymore. I'm just happy I didn't catch something that would cause me to have to keep wearing them.

Moral of the story WRAP IT UP GUYS

[Mr.Chimeny415]

Sex with a condom aint real sex- but if you're just finding fucks wherever u can get em i.e dorm parties , raves, or on the street, then yeah you should use protection. I personally feel that if I honestly think I need to sheild my dick from physically touching your flesh, then I don't wanna do you in the first place...It's like sleeping with enemy...or a prostitute.
Question: Would you risk having unprotected sex with a prostitute(m or f)? Then y would you risk it with a person who, based on their interaction or involvement w/you, is obviously just as promiscuos even if on a lower scale?

I dont' random fuck.
I give 60 min conversational background checks.
If they pass, I pound that ass. j/k

[Fengzi]

Sex with a condom aint real sex- but if you're just finding fucks wherever u can get em i.e dorm parties , raves, or on the street, then yeah you should use protection. I personally feel that if I honestly think I need to sheild my dick from physically touching your flesh, then I don't wanna do you in the first place...It's like sleeping with enemy...or a prostitute.
Question: Would you risk having unprotected sex with a prostitute(m or f)? Then y would you risk it with a person who, based on their interaction or involvement w/you, is obviously just as promiscuos even if on a lower scale?

I dont' random fuck.
I give 60 min conversational background checks.
If they pass, I pound that ass. j/k

Your logic contradicts itself. If she's willing to have unprotected sex with you, she's probably had it with someone else. When you consider that, depending on the particular STD and especially in women, many cases won't have symptoms, your "60 min conversational background check" doesn't mean very much.

[someuser]

I think we can all agree on two things:

1. One should always protect oneself when fucking some random skank hoe from a bar, club, party, ect.

2. Sex with a condom feels nothing like sex without a condom (not nearly as good for the guy OR girl).


The trick is, at what point does one have sex w/o a condom??? To each their own. Personally, while it certainly isnt fool proof by any stretch of the imagination, I will have unprotected sex with a girl I consider a gf (IE I'm very selective about girls I consider a gf) whereas I wont have sex with just some random girl w/o a condom (with one exception in my life).

If it makes the 'gf' feel better I'm always open to getting tested and using condom until that point. I'm not ok with having a long-term relationship with a girl where we always have to worry about having a condom to have sex and where the sex is constantly sub-par to what it could be. That is just me

So far I only had one girl who was potentially a gf not feel comfortable with my thinking. I in no way pressured her to change her mind but rather respected her decision. We however never ended up talking again.

[dutch.lover]

For all you ladies out there on the pill- I can't recommend enough switching to the 'ring' instead. It's awesome, you don't need to remember to take a pill every day/night, and you totally forget it's there. It's more effective than the pill as well, because the accuracy can't be reduced by forgetting to take a pill at the same time all the time, etc. It also costs about the same. It's called NuvaRing, for the record.

[someuser]

Yeah and the best part of the NuvaRing is if you leave it in the entire month it stops your period!

The only other thing I know of that stops a chick's period is depo but most girls I've been with had their sex drive killed by 'the shot' (defeats the entire purpose of fucking BC). There is nothing more annoying then not being able to have sex cause the girl is on her rag.

[dutch.lover]

Just to note; It stops your period but u still have to insert another ring after the original 3 weeks are up, cause they are only designed to stop ur period for 3 weeks at a time. I didnt want anyone getting preggers thinking the rings worked for an infinite amount of time. lol.

[JaggedEdge]

Thats what we are using next, the ring.

[Reefer Rogue]

The results are in:
You are NOT the father.
*breakdances*