I think we can all agree on two things:

1. One should always protect oneself when fucking some random skank hoe from a bar, club, party, ect.

2. Sex with a condom feels nothing like sex without a condom (not nearly as good for the guy OR girl).


The trick is, at what point does one have sex w/o a condom??? To each their own. Personally, while it certainly isnt fool proof by any stretch of the imagination, I will have unprotected sex with a girl I consider a gf (IE I'm very selective about girls I consider a gf) whereas I wont have sex with just some random girl w/o a condom (with one exception in my life).

If it makes the 'gf' feel better I'm always open to getting tested and using condom until that point. I'm not ok with having a long-term relationship with a girl where we always have to worry about having a condom to have sex and where the sex is constantly sub-par to what it could be. That is just me

So far I only had one girl who was potentially a gf not feel comfortable with my thinking. I in no way pressured her to change her mind but rather respected her decision. We however never ended up talking again.