Quote Originally Posted by turquoise70
This was an issue for my best friend before it was ever an issue for me, so it got me thinking, and now I'm wondering if it might apply to me.

Here's the deal. He and I were bestest buddies and we're both pretty bisexual, meaning we each often have gay urges that we each entertain just as welcomingly as straight ones.

Well, he and I have both dated a series of girls who left us high and dry in many ways, everything from just being confused and breaking up without explanation, to professing total love while stealing money and screwing, even dating, other guys behind our backs and being passive aggressive about relationship problems and blaming the entire collapse on us, the guys. And we both decided we were damn sick of it. He told me one time that he was tired of women entirely, he no longer trusted them at all (And he's had even more experience dating than me), and that he was only going to date guys from then on. It worked pretty well from what I hear.

He and I are very similar when it comes to relationships, and when it comes to personality, and who we attract in women, and who (women) tend to be attracted to us. I'm seriously considering just going for men instead of women, even though I'm not as sexually secure giving myself to a guy as I am to a woman. What do you guys think?

I find the gay guys who I've been interested in to generally be far more level-headed, compassionate, and emotionally engaging (and emotionally responsible) than 95% of the girls I know in my agegroup (let's say 18 to 25 years old), even though I'm not quite as sexually attracted to them as I would be to a woman's body. So it's less about finding the gay lifestyle liberating, like an end to itself, and more about being disgusted with every experience I've ever had dating or even considering or even approaching someone of the opposite sex. I guess what I'm wondering is if my personality, like my friend's, just simply lends itself more readily to gay dating.

It's good to keep in mind that I am bisexual and knew this before considering only dating men, so it's not like..."disaffected, disgruntled straight guy who wants to 'get back' at a woman" or something.

Depressing assholes' posts will be ignored. You know who you are.
i know how that is... i swear to god, every single one of debs(the girl i just broke up with) ex boyfriends, have gone gay... because of the way that she has treated them is what i think... i mean, if you read some of my most recent posts... it will telll you how many times she cheated on me, and for a while she was just using me for a place to live... blah blah blah.... i hate stupid blonde whores... hopefuly, today the girl im gonna ask out will say yes, and hopefuly that girl wont act the same as my EX, cause if that happens, im gonna losse all hope in loveing another humanbeing(to be more spacific, women) and im just gonna start being a player agin