I'm bi. Female. I have known this since shortly before starting college when I was 19. I have had a handful of experiences with women, and I have enjoyed them, but I think I know in the long run it will be a man I end up with - if I end up with anyone (I am pretty content being technically single, dating around, and not having to answer to anyone). I have a lesbian cousin who is committed to her partner and a gay uncle who just married his partner of the last 14 years.

So, to turquoise, maybe you should stick with men for a while and see what happens. Maybe you will start finding women desirable again, maybe not. But you owe it to yourself to focus on one or the other. When I first started messing around with women, it caused SO much confusion - I didn't know who or what I really wanted and it's because I wasn't taking the time to learn about myself. Learn who you are. You have SO much time to make mistakes...try to nip this one in the bud, so to speak...