Sex is just sex. Nothing more ...nothing less. Married, or not, it boils down to who you are comfortable with...if they take care of themselves or not. My lady and I have a very few *f-buddies* male and female. Very professional, very discreet, and on occassion, we all indulge in playtime!! I love my lady dearly...enought to want her to open to me to be able to say, "I want to...."

If you need alcohol to go thru with something...it's something you should rethink. Enjoy a healthy sexual appeitite, but do so on your terms. Do so with your eyes wide open...it's much more fun and exciting. Sex is about fun and frolic, not control and inducing others to your will.

F-buddies, are a great minivacation, so plan and have fun.