Quote Originally Posted by Acouwaila
Thanks for all of the advice guys but I think I may have given you guys the wrong impression..

my father isnt an alcoholic...its just that everytime my parents drink they tend to fight a lot and its big fights (so im worried one might go wrong)

so yeah....like someone said....i was gonna propose the idea today while my dad is going through a hangover but i havnt done it yet....

im actually thinking about sending my mom an e-mail with everything i want to say in it....its much easier for me to talk that way...and i can get across everything i want to say. I think if i include that I am being completely serious and im just trying to care for their relationship then she will listen.
She would propose the idea to my father and he'd probably try it out. But im not sure. Ive got a bit more thinking to do
No offense man, we are all here trying to help you but I gotta say that you really need to try to communicate with your parents. I don't know the exact circumstances that have led you to feel more comfortable writing an email, but seriously take that route as a last resort if you can. These are your parents we're talking about here, if you sit down in a serious manner with either of them they will listen to you. Show that you care about them and talk to them. I don't know what age you are but it doesn't matter because I guarantee that if you talk to them in person and look them in the eyes they will think that much more of you and you're maturity level. Don't rule anything out but also don't sit there and stew about it. Sometimes ideas come and then they leave so don't make too much of it.

Good luck.