Picking up girls.

[TheSmokingMonkey]

Find something in common to talk about with her. You might try:

1. a teacher (did you see Mr. Whoever's tie today? isn't it loud?)
2. a class (did you get the assignment? or have you ever taken spanish?)
3. how was your weekend? what did you do?
4. the weather: it is so cold out! but I can't wait to go snowboarding! do you ski or anything in the winter?
5. I like that color on you, by the way give a compliment but don't be like "you are so gorgeous" b/c it's too forward.

Good luck. Remember, you only get what you ask for. So don't be afraid to ask!!

If things go well talking with her, and you're still into her, then don't be shy - ask if she wants to hang out and grab a coffee over the weekend or something.

[TheSmokingMonkey]

Or, if she likes sports I would take her to a professional or college sports game - that way you guys can concentrate on something fun without having to make really super-intelligent conversation the whole time.

I also like shooting pool (it's not as "just friends" as bowling), going to a play (it's better than a movie), or dancing (provided you like to do that).

[duncan87]

when shes not there, break her locker a little, im a way that only you can fix it...so when your both at your lockers and she cant open her's, un-break it for her...then just start a convo like oh yeah that happens to mine all the time, these lockers suck, or whatever

good luck you fuckin emo-lover!

[duncan87]

then give her eye contact and then scream a little like a dinosaur, like not too loud...then just start tearing her emo clothing off (it might be a little hard with all the emo chains she wears) then jus turn her around and bend her over so that her bare ass is facing your penis and jus put it in...it feels good, like the first time you smoked the sweet cheebah
good luck man! and have fun!

[yabatab]

Does she smoke the herb? If so a joint or bowl offering can be a great
ice braker. Just seem interested in every thing she says even if you
dont give two shits about what shes talking about and you'll be in
like flin.....LOL

[cambam]

O yeah one more question, everyone always says "have self-confidence" but they never really say any more than that....how do I show that Im confident??

Happy, out-going, smiley, pleasent to be around, don't stutter, no saying 'I don't know' no cockiness, not loud and not quiet, well spoken, calm body language, relaxed.

They do ya?

[Acouwaila]

we are talking about a high school girl here...i mean all of this advice sounds like it should be given to older more mature people...

im sure theres different approaches....like in high school...find out what music shes into....ask her a lot of questions....even make a list while u have time and memorize them...if u are too shy about shit like this then u will run out of stuff to say.....

just be yourself and remember she is no better than u....u are both just humans....she is merely a different sex

[Hydro_smoka]

i got a number yesterday a school and it was this easy:

i step out front for my break and this pretty hot chick is out there, i ask her can i get one of those cigs?.

she's like yeah and i light up, and she brings up how cold it is......after that i just built a conversation from it.

and buy the time i had to go back inside i had her number.

just be yourself.

[higher4hockey]

talking to girls is the eastiest thing in the world mate!!! the confidence part, all you have to do is start talking to her...about anything. and just give off the impression that you talk to girls every day. dont use stupid pickup lines, just talk about ANYTHING. also i have found that in my experience, a well placed wink does wonders. and smile a lot!

[canucktoker]

....ask her a lot of questions....even make a list while u have time and memorize them...if u are too shy about shit like this then u will run out of stuff to say.....

Best advice in this thread^ I find asking questions to be the best way to stop uncomfortable silences. Chicks love to talk about themselves, so just keep asking. End of the nite she will have talk talk talked, and you will be "good listener". Hopefully she gives you some info that will help you get her in bed.