im 18 as well and in nearly the same situation. only my mom hasnt given me those dreaded words yet. ive been trying my best to get into community college classes but they fucking fill up so quick by the time i try and add a class its fucking full. because of this i look like a lazy ass pothead whos worth nothing. i am going to be getting a job at blockbuster very soon though. hopefully this will show my mom that i WANT to work and make money. Its funny, i have 40 dollars in my wallet i want to give to you. My heart goes out to you man. maybe by tomorrow after work your mom will be cooled down. try going to the house after she gets back from working and having a good long talk with her. bring her a job application you plan on filling out. SHOW HER that you have drive.