Sounds like a good approach, Someuser, certainly as good as many others. Maybe you'll find some spiritual sustenance there. I don't know much about Wiccans except that fundamentalist Christians don't approve of them, which makes them alright in my book. I know many Wiccans find a lot of peace in nature and embrace the natural world with great reverence. I like that.

As far as counseling's concerned, try and keep an open mind. Just because one counselor didn't work doesn't mean it's not without value, even someday perhaps for you. There are lots of different counselors and lots of different therapies, many very helpful. People need to want to do therapy in order for it to succeed, however, and many do not. Also, I think hypnosis is a very good tool for helping re-target unconscious patterns and thoughts, and it's very calming, too. Just keep these things in mind for the future when you might be ready for other tools.
birdgirl73 Reviewed by birdgirl73 on . Getting over past loves... Anyone here have any tips or tricks? I've been 'stuck' on this one girl I dated in HS... We dated from 97' to 2000 and I havent seen her since Jan. of 2000... But I think of her every day. It was one of those 'love at first sight' things and we had a very passionate 2.5yrs together. We kept in contact since the 15th of this September until I finally told her I couldnt keep this email thing going anymore... She told me she still was in love with me and thinks of me every day... *BUT* she Rating: 5