It's a hard thing...no argument here.


I've found the best way is to focus on the aspects of your past lover that didn't sit right with you.

Example: My first real, hotter-than-the-sun romance was with a girl I went to high school with, but we didn't hook up until the summer of our freshman college year. Turned into a 3 year relationship with the 1st year being absolutely HEAVEN. I was flat-out stupid for this girl, but always pretty weirded out by her desire to sing at me. And by that, I mean we'd be partying or hanging out or whatever and she would just start humming then singing, like, in my ear. She had an OK voice but I'm sorry it was annoying and weird, and apart from her penchant to make funny noises when I was drilling her, probably the only thing about her that I looked at negatively. Can't complain about the latter cuz it involved me getting laid.

Anyway, whenever I reminesce about the hot-headed days of yore and my first real love, I find the need to immediately focus on her damn wannabe Celion Dion routine in order to not feel completely depressed and detract from the wonderful relationship I currently enojoy.



my 0.02...