everybody is full of it.

[3rdEyeVision]

maby your not that intimidating but you should just let her chill for a bit....she knows if she ever wants to try smoking she can come to you so you've done all you can really do.

[Inferius]

What do you do, in the bath?

[Cornelius]

at first i thought you were a guy, until i read down the thread some more.

it changed my perspective on the situation completely. haha, funny how that happens

but yeah, if she don't wanna, don't push and talk to her.

p

[buddymyfriend]

You can't make anyone smoke that doesn't want to. You just gotta let them know that if they want to the invitations there. Generally I find that smoking infront of them a few times usually ends with them smoking as they see what a great time your having!

Peace and good luck with that love thang!

Buddy

[LIP]

It's not being intimidating, its being nice and offfering.

I'd take you up on it anyday crudemood.

[Tom Green Thumb]

I would get a few friends and invite her to your house. When she gets there have two of your friends hold her while the other plugs her nose and sticks a lit joint in her mouth. She will have to smoke then! Obviously I'm just joking, but I had to say it. It's one of those mornings.

But really, if she wants to wait don't force her. If she wants to she will, if not she will eventually with or without your offer. I know it is nice to have friends experience the same as you but she has to make this decision herself. I'm sure she will come around.

TGT

[crudemood]

It's not being intimidating, its being nice and offfering.

I'd take you up on it anyday crudemood.

thank you lip, some support, i knew i could count on you.

you all are making me sound like a pushy bitch. im really not, at lest

and maybe i do smoke weed to hide who i am but when im high i feel like i can communicate my feelings so much better than being sober but thats just me..

this time ive really just brought up the fact that she's being denying it and she didnt deny she was denying it. really its just a thing of figuring her real intentions out. it sucks to have a perfect picture of someone ruined.
maybe i expected too much too.

[LIP]

You ever on msn hun?

I added you but you never talk to me

[Tom Green Thumb]

I understand you want people to be straight with you. If she doesn't want to she should say so and not make other excuses. I wouldn't like that either, so I can see where your coming from.

TGT

[rachel25]

same thing has happened to me babe. had one of my girly friends over on friday and persuaded her to have a smoke with me, shes a funny girl so i thought we'd have a laugh, but she had about 2-3 drags and started getting paranoid as f**k then had a whitey so the evening ended up with her a paranoid wreck in the corner not even able to speak and i felt like shit cos i was the one who made her feel like it. anyway moral of the story is your probably better off smoking on your own.
ps i dont think you sound like a bully x x