I have a problem and i need some advice

[Greenport]

Dont let her change you. If she doesnt like what you do then thats her problem let her deal with it.

[T®auma]

i know bud is a good man. But i like to do other stuff sometimes. I never get tired of bud thou. I dont feel i need to change i like how i am. So i guess she will have to deal or leave... dont want to be harsh but i am the most happy when i am smoking with my friends.

[blueberryyumyum]

yo don't let bud get in the way of a relationship, it's a plant, a relationship involves a person. I'm pro-pot but i do think that if you really like this girl, then you could take a break, or maybe do it behind her back, just don't let it become a problem or anything.

[Kid Dynamite]

i know bud is a good man. But i like to do other stuff sometimes. I never get tired of bud thou. I dont feel i need to change i like how i am. So i guess she will have to deal or leave... dont want to be harsh but i am the most happy when i am smoking with my friends.

thats the spirit dude. If she really wants to be with you, she will accept that its part of what you do.

[Frozen Sativa]

I guess you have to ask yourself how much of yourself is integrated with drugs? I dont think its quite as unreasonable to ask your significant other to stop trippin and shit if they really didnt want you to, but bud...well It seems like thats really part of who you are. Theres the possibility that she will find somthing else about you she wants to change, and then somthing else...Its rather controlling. So i guess you have to wiegh her against your hobbys and/or sacraments and make the decision if she cant make the concession... also the more your with her the less you will feel like getting buzzed or tippin...so it kind of works itself out that way. If you feel its essential to your happiness though theres two things that apply: a)you have a problem habit (which probably isnt the case) or b) it really is somthing your passionate enough about that depriving yourself of would cause unhappiness. If 'b' is the case, then id say she should make the concession for the relationship or it wont work out. Watever happens, don't look back in regret, just learn, go forward, and if you can...spark a fat J! :rasta:
good luck and make sure to tell us how it goes!

[sirsmokesalot]

haha looks like we got ourselves a thurgood jenkins.

[sirsmokesalot]

and as for my advice, if you guys are really meant to be together and if she really feels for you then she should accept it or be happy with a comprimise.

sr.smokesalot

[T®auma]

Guys i want to thank each and everyone of you for what you have told me. it is all very insiteful. I am thinking long and hard about this decision. When i tell her how i feel and she tells me what she thinks i will report back. Talk to you all later.

Bud Buddy

-T®auma

[twist n shout]

Either she accepts the whole package or ? Theres pleanty fish in the sea.

[Newglory]

Not neccesarily. im not accusing weed. but ur logics are fucked up.

"accept the whole package"
So ur saying ud have no problem with ur dad if he's an abusice alchohlic?
jeez
just cuz he smokes weed doesn;t mean its him. his personality hase been affected by it. but its not him.