I have a problem and i need some advice

[T®auma]

Well guys i have been posting here for a while now. I am in a situation where i would like some advice. I am starting to date a girl that i really like but she doesnt want me to do ANY drugs. I am on probation at the moment so i do things like salvia and trip shrooms... She wants me to not do any drugs at all. Even smoke bud when i get off probation. I want to stay with her but i go to things like Burning Man and Bonnaroo every year. I cant change my whole life and friend set just for a girl but i dont want to leave her. Any advice?

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-T®auma

T®auma Reviewed by T®auma on 10-05-2006. I have a problem and i need some advice Well guys i have been posting here for a while now. I am in a situation where i would like some advice. I am starting to date a girl that i really like but she doesnt want me to do ANY drugs. I am on probation at the moment so i do things like salvia and trip shrooms... She wants me to not do any drugs at all. Even smoke bud when i get off probation. I want to stay with her but i go to things like Burning Man and Bonnaroo every year. I cant change my whole life and friend set just for a girl Rating: 5

[dejayou30]

if she wants to change you so much, does she really like YOU?

[T®auma]

if she wants to change you so much, does she really like YOU?

She likes Me. Just not the Drug part about me.

[holysmokin]

But if your a toker then that is part of who you are. I dont know if I am go be with someone they have to accept all of me or none at all. I guess I just got lucky and have an understanding wife. Just my two cents though

[Nochowderforyou]

If I had a girl who wanted me to quit smoking pot, I couldn't be with her. Sounds like a boring life to me. No more bong hits with your buddies, instead, you sit around on a Friday night, around the dinner table, and you know what you do at dinner time...you talk about your day! Or, lets go to her friends house and totally forget about your friends because she doesn't approve, and play pictionary and scrabble.

Pot is fun, fun = happiness, so why fix it if it ain't broke. There are more fishies in the sea and there are plenty of good looking ladies out there who puff weed like a chimney. I say find yourself a girl who shares the same interests, or, tell her to accept that is what you do. She can have her friends and cocktails, you have the reefer. :thumbsup:

[T®auma]

First off thanks a lot for the advice. Second what you are all telling me makes a lit of sense. I love to toke but not all people approve of that i guess. I will just have to talk to her and tell her that i love to smoke bud and that is part of me. I dont want to give that up neither do i want to give her up! What a delima! Thanks again for the advice.

[ToDrunkToFish]

This seems to be a huge problem with alot of my buddies.

I say talk to her. If you smoked alot like everyday see if you will talk her into letting you smoke weed mayby a couple times a week. Or if she smokes ciggs. and you dont make that an issue.

Or, what momma doesnt know wont hurt her right? (Well, your g/f)

Its not like your cheatin on her =) GL!

[HypnotizedMind]

Forget her, there are plenty of other chicks out there some of which might smoke.

[T®auma]

i still dont know...

[CrushIt]

had the same thing with my girl. now we only smoke together. just either find something you don't like about her and compromise, or just be like "i won't do any other drugs, just weed, it's harmless" and compromise, or tell her you will smoke less...

key word? compromise