Res, I was wondering, is there any way that you can get the courts to tell your ex she's not getting any more money from you? I mean, there's no way she can get blood from a stone, right? I know a guy with an ex much like yours, she was trying to extract every last penny from him (really she was trying to extract all the life left in him).

So, finally, the judge said she had to prove where all of the $$$ was going. She was saying she was using it all towards their daughter but it turned out she was really going on vacation, etc. Now she has to have receipts for everything she buys with his child support money. And she gets $500 less a month now because he proved she was wasting all the cash on herself and not the kid.

I know it's easy to say money doesn't matter but it does matter when not having enough is destroying your life. I've come to the realization that I will never have enough cash...never, it's that simple. Also, if someone tells me to smile and spark up, I will find you, and possibly kill you for being an asshole because I am out of weed...unless you want to give me all of yours.

Res,it may seem like the only way out is to put yourself out of your misery but you can't because you have kids. You have 2 huge responsibilities now and they need a father, you can't take that away from them. Besides, you cannot leave them alone with your crazy ex. It's not fair, but your life is not just your own now, it's your kids', too.