Me and my sister are close. I will take her word, and ask this girl about it right when she comes by after work.

Or, if I am going to do something, I'll say "I hope I'm man enough to do this", while staring at her with a stare that would make her feel VERY uncomfortable if she knew what I meant by "I hope I'm man enough to do this".

Sorry if this makes no sense. I'm pretty stoned :\.