One pissed stoner

[Captain Hanks]

I've been shot down before. I just prefer the people to be straight up about it instead of, you know, leading them on. I never lead chicks on, it's fucking lame and pathetic.

I know exactly what you mean. She was basically wasting your time, wich is considered extremely rude in today's fast-paced world.

Captain Hanks Reviewed by Captain Hanks on 10-05-2006. One pissed stoner Okay, there's really no point to this thread other then to have me vent. I have been getting really close to someone. Hanging out with her a lot, smoking with her a lot, and just having a great time. There was always this unspoken "they like each other" aura in the air when we hung out. Or so I thought. I treated this chick with respect, appreciation, and kindness, the exact thing she was looking for. But I guess what woman say and do are two totally different things. Considering I'm Rating: 5

[Inferius]

"Best Friend Syndrome".
If you find a girl attractive, and have noticeable chemistry from the beginning, never treat her like a friend. Keep the non-platonic-ness very obvious, and show friendship through companionship.

[budsmoker]

maryjane is the only female u can trust and she'll never leave you

[Dro_Princess]

For the 2 who said that women want men who are dicks thats not what any of the women I know want. My mom got rid of my dad because she felt he was a dick. My sister left her boyfriend cause he was a dick. Why in the world would a woman want a man who is a asshole? Be straight up with her. Seems to me she was leading you on and possibly using you for weed. Its not right what she done and she needs to be called out on it. But dont think all women are like that cause they are not. The next time that you become intrested in a girl tell her or you could become "just like her brother".

[Inferius]

For the 2 who said that women want men who are dicks thats not what any of the women I know want. My mom got rid of my dad because she felt he was a dick. My sister left her boyfriend cause he was a dick. Why in the world would a woman want a man who is a asshole? Be straight up with her. Seems to me she was leading you on and possibly using you for weed. Its not right what she done and she needs to be called out on it. But dont think all women are like that cause they are not. The next time that you become intrested in a girl tell her or you could become "just like her brother".

It's actually scientifically proven that most women tend to choose the asshole over the nice guy. For most women, this primal urge is just a phase. Others never expirience it. For others, it seems to ruin their entire lives.

[FireyBudBurner]

Wow guys I have to say this is a topic that has been troubling me for years. I have had many girlsfriend whom I loved and treated very nicely and they always kept taking advantage of me. The one girl I dated for more than a year was a chick I cheated on, smoked weed before hanging out with her (she hated weed...don't ask me how that worked) and even fooled around with her best friend one time before we started seriously dating. If you ask me those were the only reasons she stuck around, because I was that dick-headed male she wanted and most girls do want. They will say they don't and claim they think otherwise but at the ended of the day they are attracted to bad boys and dickheads by nature. It has a lot to do with the fact we are animals and in nature the strongest meanest (alpha male)g ets the best female. I hate it and I will never be a dick to a women again as it made me feel horrible when the relationship ended, now I will just stay single, bang slutty chicks and wait for a women intelligent enough to overcome this until I engage in another relationship. And honestly the hottest girls are always the worst they almost always have no personality and tons of issues, go for a girl you like to hang out and seems down to earth enough while still being attractive (yea yea we all no VERY hard to find).

[cjshamrock]

Hey man, I've been through this shit too. As Inferius wrote, this is known as the dreaded LJBF syndrome (let's just be friends).

Please don't fall into the trap of nice guys/jerks, or start treating women like shit too, because that won't get you the results you're looking for. FireyBudBurner has given some good advice.


I HIGHLY recommend reading an ebook (which you can easily download for free on Emule) called "How to be a pickup artist" from a guy called Juggler. I'm not kidding, this book has changed my life... You'll see everything you're doing wrong and what you need to do to change it... Plus, it's easy and fun and you'll be getting girls in no time. Promise. :rasta:

[buddymyfriend]

Ahhh bro we've all been there, nothin hurts more than being hurt by opposite sex especially when you're picturing yourself knee deep in her panties! Learn your lesson and move on. Sounds to me like she was using you to get high and what kinda girl bad mouths you to your sis. She sounds like the kinda tail you dont wanna be chasing. You seem like a cool kinda guy, hang in there, dont give up, trust me the most amazing girl will come into your life when you least expect it and she'll turn your world upside down and inside out!

Peace

Buddy

[MaryJaneintheCloset]

She wasn't "woman enough" to tell you this herself? Whatever.

[Cassiopiea]

This is why guys are better then girls for that sort of thing. (not meant in a sexist way, rather a gay way.)