i know how it feels, man. my last girlfriend didn't care if i smoked weed, and she said she wouldn't smoke weed with me. well 5 months into the relationship, she got drunk with some dude, smoked his weed, then smoked his cock. that sucked so damn bad. and my current gf, i love her to death, but she hates weed, and cries everytime i even bring up the subject. so i have to sneak around and it sucks.