Why do humans kiss?

[orangeman]

Why do humans kiss? It's not that hard to figure out, it feels good and gets me stimulated..thats why .

[turquoise70]

This is a really awesome thread. I've wondered this myself often.

For my part, I've always had a sort of dislike for kissing. I've had all kinds of kisses from different people, girlfriends, etc. I dunno, it just kinda makes me want to scrunch up my mouth and draw back from the person.

Then again, to contrast this, there is this really super hot black girl at my school and frankly I'd like to kiss her nonstop all day.

So what the hell's up with me, I guess XD

[cannabis campbell]

Why do humans kiss? It's not that hard to figure out, it feels good and gets me stimulated..thats why .

Haha ditto enough said, do we really need to know any more

[Samwhore]

amazing thread MJS!!

[birdgirl73]

This has been my favorite thread of the day, MJS. About my favorite thing, too.

For my part, I've always had a sort of dislike for kissing. I've had all kinds of kisses from different people, girlfriends, etc. I dunno, it just kinda makes me want to scrunch up my mouth and draw back from the person.
So what the hell's up with me, I guess XD

OK, Turquoise, I've had this question before based on something else you wrote in another thread. Do you think there might be a part of you that's simply not interested in dating/kissing/romancing someone else at the moment? I get that feeling very distinctly, and I think it's real important that you not necessarily be in any hurry to do so. Many of the young ones around here talk such a big game about their various conquests and romantic activities, but I think the wiser ones are the more cautious, slow-moving folks who wait till they feel an emotional connection before they make a physical one. If that's the case with you, I applaud that.

[fikusroot]

I love kissing; feeling her breathing against my cheek, her hair playing gently at the side of my face. I like to cup my hand under her jaw the way you grab ahold of a dog after it's misbehaved, but softly and gingerly. I like running my hand up and down the small of her back, gently massaging her while at the same time, pulling her close. I love the way the way the warmth seems to charge and magnetize the two of us so breaking away becomes inconcievable. And most of all, I like to yell really loud into her mouth while we're kissing and freak her the fuck out.

[CrushIt]

I love kissing; feeling her breathing against my cheek, her hair playing gently at the side of my face. I like to cup my hand under her jaw the way you grab ahold of a dog after it's misbehaved, but softly and gingerly. I like running my hand up and down the small of her back, gently massaging her while at the same time, pulling her close. I love the way the way the warmth seems to charge and magnetize the two of us so breaking away becomes inconcievable. And most of all, I like to yell really loud into her mouth while we're kissing and freak her the fuck out.

lol

[turquoise70]

OK, Turquoise, I've had this question before based on something else you wrote in another thread...

Aw man XD I didn't mean to give off the impression that strongly. I hope I'm not getting a reputation...

I dunno. It's definitely plausible that something in me really just isn't into it right now-- it's probably due to me being somewhat self-interested overall. But irritatingly enough, I've been "dating" (i use the term loosely) since first grade; that is to say I've been, at least ostensibly, wanting to strike up something really romantic and engaging since before I knew where babies came from. But, like I said, it was probably just me mimicking adult behavior.

Without wanting to sound boastful or arrogant, I do somewhat pride myself on restricting my affection for someone I feel very deeply for, and have a long-term intimate bond with. This is a notion that was pretty much lost on most of my buddies in high school-- then again, they were the ones with girlfriends, lol. All mine have been internet girlfriends I met in real life (and no, none of them were child touchers...thank goodness).

[birdgirl73]

No, no. No reputation. Just something subtle I picked up on. And wondered about.

How old are you, Turquoise? About 19? It's perfectly fine to be self-interested and it's great to be discriminating about when and with whom you bestow your affection. I think what you said reflects a great deal of self-actualization. One of these days the right person will come along.

[turquoise70]

Good guess-- I'm 20. But sometimes I tend to exude a little bit younger of an attitude than my age.

Anyway, I appreciate the vote of confidence Encouraging words are nice things to keep in mind.