Im too damn horny when Im with her!

[Tom Swierzbinski]

Just got back into a relationship with my ex (and before you say anything, Im glad I did ).
Anyway, we have sex pretty regularly, 3 or 4 times a week sometimes more, but whenever Im with her I always wanna go down on her, have sex etc. Its not that I only see her in a sexual way, I love her to bits and have even got engaged to her a few days ago. I always feel warm and gooey inside when I see her, but when I look at her I just imagine tearing her clothes off. Its really frustrating for me, because even if for just one day a week I just want to be able to be around her without wanting to fuck her silly.

Another thing... would it be unfair to not go down on her/finger her until she does the equivalent to me? I get really down and depressed when she doesnt make me come, I just want her to love my body as much as I love hers. Im nearly in tears thinking about this, but if I just cannot have a partner who isnt as attentive to me as I am to her

Tom Swierzbinski Reviewed by Tom Swierzbinski on 10-01-2006. Im too damn horny when Im with her! Just got back into a relationship with my ex (and before you say anything, Im glad I did :) ). Anyway, we have sex pretty regularly, 3 or 4 times a week sometimes more, but whenever Im with her I always wanna go down on her, have sex etc. Its not that I only see her in a sexual way, I love her to bits and have even got engaged to her a few days ago. I always feel warm and gooey inside when I see her, but when I look at her I just imagine tearing her clothes off. Its really frustrating for me, Rating: 5

[Satan666]

I got it the same.
Say youll do it only if she does it too.

[dryst]

rub one off before she comes over...

[LIP]

Congrats man, i hope it all goes well for you and her. Tell her i said hey

[Tom Swierzbinski]

Satan666, does it work? She LOVES it when I go down on her (I love it too, hehe), so maybe after a few days of no lickin she will decide to start 'sharing the love'
Dryst, done that many times. Only thing it does it make me last longer in bed
And Alex, cheers, and Ill tell her ya said hi

[birdgirl73]

Swizzy, I gotta ask about this.

A week ago you were in torment, believing she wasn't interested at all. Then there was interest again. Then y'all got engaged? And now you're feeling like you can't get enough of her. It's all awful fast, isnt' it? From 0 to 110 in five to seven days. I worry that this is gonna flame out rather than last in the way you want it to.

[Tom Swierzbinski]

Just to clarify for everyone, I didnt get engaged after a week of going out. We were seeing eachother for a couple of months back in June, then I (this is going to sound really bad) wrote a list of what I wanted in the relationship. She got mad, we had sex, then she broke up with me the next day, ultimately making me mad - shagging me one day then breaking up the next - which resulted in me not talking to her for two months, but still loving her. We only got back together because I met up with a couple of mates in town, and they met up with Emily too. Eventually we started talking again, one thing led to another, then started going out again. Yes, she did say someone elses name (Ben) but not while having sex, and he has been on our minds a lot over the past few weeks... hes having quite a few problems at the moment, but thats another story. I trust that it was a mistake because she rang him up the next day, telling him that she doesnt have any feelings for him at all (apart from friendship). That, and hes becoming a woman soon. I have completely lost track of the point to this story.

I just love her so damn much. All I want to do is hold her in my arms 24/7. When Im with her, every trouble I have just fades away. Birdgirl, you seem to know a lot about, well, everything, so I have a question... what are the chances of getting pregnant if you have unprotected sex four times in a row, just after a period, and you take the 'morning-after' pill 82 hours after sex?

[birdgirl73]

How soon is "just after a period," Swizz?

[Tom Swierzbinski]

Two days if I remember correctly.

[birdgirl73]

Would you like to take this up into chat so I can ask you some quick Qs a bit more privately? I'll PM you if you'll meet me up there.