f0r the dudes - The Player's Guide

[Euphoric]

Mwahaha..i present to you one of the ultimate tomes on seducing the ladies!

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/

The number one rule of fluff talk is - direct the conversation towards and talk about FEELINGS. What fluff talk usually ends up being is an exchange of facts - "where ya goin?", "whatcha doin?", "what did you do today/yesterday?", "oh that's interesting". Facts are a BORE! Giving you her facts makes her feel NOTHING. Neither has she any use for the facts you are giving her. So grab any opportunity you have to get to feelings!

"So what did you do yesterday?"

"Oh I went skating"

"You like skating?"

"Yes"

"Makes you feel good?"

"Yeah"

"I know what you mean..."

Euphoric Reviewed by Euphoric on 09-30-2006. f0r the dudes - The Player's Guide Mwahaha..i present to you one of the ultimate tomes on seducing the ladies! http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/ The number one rule of fluff talk is - direct the conversation towards and talk about FEELINGS. What fluff talk usually ends up being is an exchange of facts - "where ya goin?", "whatcha doin?", "what did you do today/yesterday?", "oh that's interesting". Facts are a BORE! Giving you her facts makes her feel NOTHING. Neither has she any use for the facts you are giving her. So Rating: 5

[gr8misadventures]

good stuff

[Euphoric]

Do not talk about any of your personal (family, work, money) problems.
Don't act desperate.
Don't talk about anything negative at all. Keep everything you talk about upbeat and positive.
Don't get drunk. This really turns women off and makes a bad impression. Don't drink at all or limit your drinking to a couple of drinks.
Don't try to analyse her problems.
Don't bitch about your previous girlfriends or ex-wives on how they mistreated you, dumped you, cheated on you, took you to the cleaners on child support, etc.
Don't pretend to be funny or humorous. If you are putting on an act, it will come across to her as phoney. Just be friendly and smile (but in appropriate doses, avoid having a grin on your face ALL THE TIME, guys that are smiling for hours in a row look terribly insecure and just plain pathetic).
Don't focus on your health problems or ailments.
Don't brag about yourself and your accomplishments. There are exceptions though, but try to be careful about them. If you really have something impressive to talk about, you can let her in on it, just try to be real casual about it. On the whole, women are very good at sniffing out when the male is trying to impress them by bragging. And if what he is bragging about is not really that impressive, it's a complete turn-off. So be careful. Focusing on her and her interests is a far safer route to take.
And at all costs, avoid these three themes: politics, religion and conspiracy theories. These are guaranteed to nuke your otherwise wonderful interaction.
Maxim (http://maximmag.com):
“Complaining or saying anything negative is kind of a turn-off. Some guys seem to think if they say that something sucks—the vodka, the music, the crowd—it shows they have an intelligent and critical eye. It just shows me that he’s a grump.
—Wendy, 27, Toronto”

[gr8misadventures]

I read this article in Maxim once about women...it was so dead on. I was reading it aloud at the end of a date to the guy I had gone out with. It was our third date and we had yet to kiss. One of the things said "don't get to the end of date #2 without a kiss of some kind. Otherwise, you will have been friended." The guy asked me if it was true and I said no, but it was, and I stopped seeing him not long after.