I understand how you feel. My parents don't give a shit about my privacy. When I'm gone, my parents will just go through all my shit and they've found some things a couple times. The thing that pisses me off is that it seems like my parents never gave a shit about me, and now all of a sudden they're just bitching at me and trying to find reasons to kick me out of the house or take their stress out on me. I know this isn't a good attitude to have, but when I wanna smoke I'm not gunna let my parents bother me or let them make me feel uncomfortable when smoking. So, I just blaze in my room with the music on and every now and then my mom will come in and tell me all this shit about smoking like how it gives you tumors or some other diseases.