ok dude...just got out of one of those...she used me for sex...(which is not a bad thing til she realizes it was just sex...then your heart feels like its bleeding out your eyes..and the whole world just left your hands and emptiness surrounds your life...consuming every bit of hope and love that you have)...but anyways...if you like the girl...then good...but...it does sound as if the boyfriend saying " that she had already fucked you" is a sign that she has thought about it becuase she hadnt told you untill she knew what your intentions are for her...give her some time...away from the dick she just left...tell her that you do like her and would eventually have it where the two of you can see each other outside of work..BUT dont wear your heart on your sleeve..cuz it may get ripped out of your chest..and it will scare you dude...trust me...i got over my break up with the heart killing woman...but it still hurts...her reason for breaking my heart?....i was an outlet for her...i helped her through bad times...and helped her with her children so that she could heal what had been cut...BULLSHIT...but anyways...good luck with her...and besides...im not a HITCH...just a regular guy..