my dads not going to tell my mom, she'll never find out unless i tell her, (that why the title is my dad, not my mom or parents) yes, but making up a time is confusing because my dads schedule is really packed, and i really dont have time to talk during the weekday and my dad works like 15 hours a day and then leaves the house for another 3 hours so on an average day ill see him for about 1-3 hours and hes either in the shower, eating dinner, or on the phone talking about work, hes a workaholic, it could be weeks until we actually talk. he drove me to school today and never said a word to me. thats 15 mintues right there, i think hes trying to avoid it.