/\/\/\ i think bob heres got a good point.


but if you dont agree with him, then i suggest that you just take this Ben guy aside and say to him exactly what you said to us, that youd really appreciate it if he would back off a bit and let you two get some time alone. Either that, or arrnage to go somewhere with her where you know he wont be, and dont let him find out where you'r going.