Maybe he's trying to make you see the light? you say this is your old girlfriend.. and that she is even moving away soon.. So why are you resurfacing old, painful feelings? Only to hurt yourself AGAIN over this girl... You say you're not using for sex.. and that's good.. but have you stopped to think that maybe it's the other way around and that she is simply getting her fill before she moves away.

Sound to me like this guy sees more of the light than you do..

But don't take my word for it..

Bob.