afraid of penis

[pbzeppelin90]

so how do you go about convincing a girl who isnt into oral sex?
im not about to force anything but i dont get whats wrong with my penis

pbzeppelin90 Reviewed by pbzeppelin90 on 09-19-2006. afraid of penis so how do you go about convincing a girl who isnt into oral sex? im not about to force anything but i dont get whats wrong with my penis :confused: Rating: 5

[Kwali]

Will she at least touch it?

[invision]

how old is this girl?

some chicks just dont like giving oral sex its a shame but true

[Inferius]

Rofl. Why don't you talk to her rationally, understand what she doesn't like about it?
lol......

[souldistortion]

Train her with honey. Whenever she does somthing good (make you a sandwich etc.) give her some honey. Then, when you want some oral, squirt a bit of honey on yourself and call it a lollypop. Lean back... enjoy.

[pbzeppelin90]

^^^^^ i like your style XD. if i bring it up she says "not now" then we argue, etc. if i eat her out i dont think she can't gve me head once in a while.

is it too much to ask?

[birdgirl73]

Chance are, PBZ, it doesn't have anything to do with your equipment. If she's young, she's likely inexperienced and doesn't know what to do. She's probably a little frightened of sex in general and may even have some earlier formed notions that oral sex is bad or unpleasant. Girls tend to be more cautious sexually anyway, especially at first, and she may feel like you're a little too eager in that area. It could be almost anything, and truly none of those things have to do with your penis at all.

You have to start with getting her to initiate touching you with her hands, then work from there, practicing the patience and celibacy of a monk for a time. You can plan now to be frustrated as heck for a while. Just give it time.

[Kwali]

Just bring it up after eating her out, ask for the favor returned

[birdgirl73]

OK, if you're already doing her that for her, then I do see why you would be wanting her to reciprocate. I was imagining y'all were still just in the heavy makeout phase.

I think that's good advice to just ask, kindly and with as much humor as you can muster, "How about it's my turn now?" See what she says. She may be afraid of your size, again, may have some preconceived (or experience-based) notions that she won't like it, may be afraid you might expect her to swallow. It's worth exploring whatever's making her hesitate.

[souldistortion]

^^^^^ i like your style XD. if i bring it up she says "not now" then we argue, etc. if i eat her out i dont think she can't gve me head once in a while.

is it too much to ask?

you guys cant argue about it during intamacy. bring it up after some sex, or like what the guy above me said, after you eat her out and ask for the favor returned.