For the record, I'm a ready and willing swallower. I know it's a warm-and-fuzzy thing. But I still say girls get to choose if you get to make choices about sex, too. You never know why a girl might prefer not to. One of my oldest friends had a forced situation/oral date rape when we were in college. She couldn't swallow after that and shouldn't have been expected to. Assaults of some type happen to 1 in 4 girls, probably more. She needs to know she has the choice.

Swallowing can be sexy, but sometimes for me, it's much sexier to sit back and watch the ejaculation instead. To know I brought things to that point, to see him up close at that peak and be aware of his expression in the background? To watch the explosion? That's a turn-on.