Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
You guys who think swallowing is mandatory will mellow out on that as you get older, I suspect. In time, if you're going at love-making experience with a healthy attitude that celebrates mutual enjoyment, I hope you'll come to regard all parts of the act as something you both should enjoy. If she doesn't like the taste of semen, she's allowed not to like that taste, just like she's allowed not to like other tastes or smells or whatever. You're allowed not to like the taste of certain foods, right? Or certain drinks? Same thing here. Just as she has the right to say yes or no to you entering her body during intercourse, she also has the right to say yes or no to swallowing. It's also perfectly OK if you don't like the way she tastes, just like you have the right to say no to anal penetration with toys or fingers. Preferences run both ways, you know, and y'all are intelligent enough to acknowledge that people's preferences don't always have to coincide.

If you're fortunate enough to have a girl who swallows, count yourself lucky. If you're not, it seems to me you're still darn lucky to be getting oral sex. But remember, if you're allowed to prefer certain things over others, then she is, too. The bottom-line truth is that any feelings of rejection you may feel about her not swallowing are about insecurities or unrealistic expectations on your end, not actually about her rejecting you.
Oral sex goes both ways... my GF squirts when she comes... I love it. Its not just about giving or recieving, its about mutual pleasure. Yes my GF swallows, but so do I. I don't have a problem with kissing her afterwards either. Its all a part of our lovemaking. I really really like eating her afterwards too... we both get so turned on, that we start all over again.

Guys, its all about pleasing your partner. If your partner is not comfortable doing something then do NOT try toforce them....that is the biggest turnoff in the world.

Ladies, the same applies to you.

For both sides, remember the cardinal rule......NO MEANS NO..... not maybe or any other bullshit. If your partner tells you NO, or I'm not comfortable with that, or I don't like that, or I don't do that, or whatever.... NO MEANS NO.

Guys, if you want to be a bunch of cavemen, go find a knothole in a fence.
If you want to please your parner, then you will get your own gratification 10X over

You can take my advice for what its worth, or not.
I am only 51 years young so there is a lot of experience here.
Mississippi Steve Reviewed by Mississippi Steve on . Spit or Swallow Question for everyone: Guys: Do you prefer your gal to spit or swallow? Does it gross you out if they swallow or do you think it's lame to spit? What are your feelings about this? and Ladies: Do you prefer to spit or swallow? Rating: 5