i do both. with my boyfriend i've always swallowed. it's just so much easier.....less mess. :]

with my ex i didn't like swallowing, mainly cuz he make it clear that i HAD to swallow, and i am not about to be told what i have to do. that just kills the mood. so i would just tell him that i hadn't eaten anything............i told him that if i swallowed on an empty stomach, i'd have a tummy ache.