advise for the ladies: after I get a bj i feel all warm and fuzy and also very content. it completely ruins my mood to watch your dribble my love shake into a cup on the night stand. do you have to swallow, hell no. but if she does thats the hottest shit in the world and you can bet i'll be back for more of that good lovin. so if you want to keep a guy around and you don't mind doing it, go for it. and by the way, if its not too bloody i don't mind a little mess.