GooseBear read this in the bible:

1 Corinthians 14:33

Depending how your Bible is it will say typically either (confusion or disorder) in that verse. See the truth is God is not a God of disorder or confusion, and if you are confused then you are not on the right path, or if you are you're not sure about it either way as Christians say:

You need to DIG into the word until you know without a doubt!

Just keep seeking, God will not lead you astray:

Matthew 7: 7-12

The key is you NEED to ---> SEEK

And that means alot of pray, reading, and having fellowship with others that know the word, remember there are many who call themselves Christians and they are not, and wisdom is what we need from the Lord to know the difference.

James 1:5-8
Matthew 7:21-23