Advice needed

[slowburn420]

I have some major problems in my life right now and i would like to get some advice from u guys. Im 17 years old, but i look like im about 12-14. This has caused severe depression for me and i dont know what to do. I have had this problem since i was bout 15. When im driving my car around i get alot of stares... at my old school i had to leave cuz i couldnt handle being around my friends i have known forever just cuz i felt like i was a burden to them cuz everywhere we go i get humiliated. I dont know how much longer i can stand it. Suicide has come to mind many times but i dont want to hurt my parents. Weed is one of the only things that makes me want to live. It gives me something to look forward to each day. I also have a disorder that makes it really hard for me to meet new people and have a conversation with a stranger. I get so fucking nervous i cant stand it. I also stutter when i talk sometimes. I think i am a good person and i think that if people got to know me they would like me. But its hard to do that when u dont look like any of the people ur age. If u have any advice it would be greatly appreciated.

slowburn420 Reviewed by slowburn420 on 09-08-2006. Advice needed I have some major problems in my life right now and i would like to get some advice from u guys. Im 17 years old, but i look like im about 12-14. This has caused severe depression for me and i dont know what to do. I have had this problem since i was bout 15. When im driving my car around i get alot of stares... at my old school i had to leave cuz i couldnt handle being around my friends i have known forever just cuz i felt like i was a burden to them cuz everywhere we go i get humiliated. I Rating: 5

[dryst]

hmmm...start working out man...start filling out, even if ur short, if ur stocky people wont fuck with u, besides, working out is good for it its a stress reliever...everytime u think about some kidk messing with u doing another rep...go to your local gym and get a membership, trust me man, ull feel alot better about urself

[Skink]

When you get to my age it will be a blessing to look young...

[dryst]

just out of curiousity...how old are u skink?

[Inferius]

I would suggest Growth Hormones, but maybe you've already been down that path...
For some reason, I know quite a few people in your situation... But i'm not necessarily friends with them, mostly becuase they went the opposite direction of you, they developed a psychological complex that makes them act tough and an asshole to everyone.
Do you know if you have an actual disease, or a hormone problem, or??
You must realize, your problems are always temporary. Distress fades, confidence develops, happyness can be acheived. Never give up.
I would definately suggest you stick with your old friends however. You don't need to go to school with them to be with them.
You could try meeting new people through them, expirementing with your social interactions in the safety of their companionship. Once you overcome the self-pity, the depression, the lack of confidence or social anxiety, there won't be any more problems. It all comes from within.

[dryst]

are u referring to the napolen complex?

[Frivolous248]

get a fake beard, worked for me!

Seriously, chill, kill yourself cause you look younger? Think about the poor people who are deformed, your lucky you just look like a little kid and not retarded and hideously disfigured. No offense to those, but I'm saying others have way worse problems.

[dryst]

ya dude suicide cause u look young...i mean come on dude...u could star in a fake kiddy porn movie and make bank...(lmao...thats sick and god please forgive me...)

[ShadowGate420]

I went through and am going through the same thing. Some people just develop later than others in life, you'll fill out eventually. What I did is learn to fight. If you are undersized growing up highschool becomes a living hell and you will run into people looking to bully and humiliate you. I took up boxing and karate and started weightlifting. After I pounded the shit out of one guy who was picking on me since 5th grade ppl stopped fucking with me, even though I was undersized. Learn to fight and scrap anyone that fucks with you. Don't take shit from anyone, no matter how bigger they are.

[Inferius]

are u referring to the napolen complex?

Yeahhhh thats the one! I kept thinking of Alexander the Great and Nero but Napolean wouldn't come...
In the fields of psychology and psychoanalysis, Napoleon complex (or Napoleon syndrome) is a colloquial term used to describe a type of inferiority complex suffered by people who are short. The term is also used more generally to describe people who are driven by a perceived handicap to overcompensate in other aspects of their lives.