Quote Originally Posted by mikee1422
resinate, complete logic in what you say, but you can not fool destiny, my question why can't we fool destiny, what the big deal and why is it that way.... only the truth will tell.....
Ah, now you are talking lol

There are two factors that ultimately rule our lives (imo)

First there is DESTINY.
DESTINY is the the place where we end up, after all the trials and tribulations of our lives are expended. We do not know our destiny, for to know that would upset our journey and path to it. Our destiny is a thing that is beyond our comprhension of life. It could be something as simple as getting run down by a car.

Secondly, there is FATE.
FATE is the thing that steers us along the path to our destiny. It (She) provides us with life changing situations that we must approach with the tools gained from previous lessons from FATE. Or, some might call it a choice.

I think of life as being a corridor of rooms, and each room is a 'lesson' from FATE that gains us an experience that we can draw upon in later life.
Sometimes, those lessons are harsh and obscure.
But, if we look back upon our lives, we will see that those lessons were necessary in order to get us to where we are now.