Love sucks

[ForeverZero]

Have you ever been in love with a girl you have no chance with? It fuckin sucks... This is a very confusing situation but I need to get it off my chest and I really dont have anyone I can talk to about this particular problem... My brothers friend has been going out with this girl from about and hour and a half away, she has been staying with him and his family. They have a very fucked up relationship and I really dont think its going to last.

Now my brother and I are fairly close, our respective groups of friends hang out all the time. But they are all still 20. My friends and I are about 23, the girl in question is 22, so she'll come out to bars with us when we go. I have become fairly close to her and have completely fallen in love with her. She is the most amazing girl I have ever met. She's intelligent, and easy going, we have a ton in common, and shes one of the most beautiful girls I have ever known in my life. I mean I would do anything for this girl, I have never felt like this about anyone, ever before. Every now and again she will say or do something that makes me think she feels the same way I do, but I'm never sure if its my imagination or not.

Now here is the meat of the problem. Either she stays with this guy who takes her completly for granted and pays no attention to her, and I get to see her almost every day. Or they break up and she moves back home... I don't know whats worse. This is very much a lose/lose situation for me. Completely in love with a girl I don't think I can ever have. When shes around it makes me incrediblely happy and unbelievably depressed at the same time. I feel like I can't just give up on feelings like these but I cant do anything about them either...

I dont know if any of that made any sense to anyone but thanks for reading anyway, I can't really talk to any of my friends about this cause I don't want it to get back to this guy that I'm in love with his girlfriend.

ForeverZero Reviewed by ForeverZero on 09-07-2006. Love sucks Have you ever been in love with a girl you have no chance with? It fuckin sucks... This is a very confusing situation but I need to get it off my chest and I really dont have anyone I can talk to about this particular problem... My brothers friend has been going out with this girl from about and hour and a half away, she has been staying with him and his family. They have a very fucked up relationship and I really dont think its going to last. Now my brother and I are fairly close, our Rating: 5

[ChronicMike]

ill whack your brother for 1,000....500 up front and 500 after the job is done.
^joke.

iidk man sounds like your just gonna have to find another chick.

[SiXFeEtDeEp]

2 things

better to love once then to never have loved at all

also ive had a first love who broke my heart and it took a year to get over. then i found my TRUE love who i will be with forever.

lmao how did that work out it ryhmed. but yeah man keep your head up. everyone gots a soul mate and when you find yours. it will be forever. even if it takes a few heart breaks you can never give up on love. its great when you find it.

[Wesley Pipes]

Have you ever been in love with a girl you have no chance with? It fuckin sucks.

oh yes... too many times... even now!.... and yes, it does suck very much.

but theres not really much u can do about it, except move on.

good luck mate :thumbsup:

Peace

[Green Love]

Your lustfully inthacturated, with a broad who you cant hook up with. Get over it, and move on to another broad. She's teasing you, to see where you stand, and if your suitable to the kind she likes. Apperently, she likes someone more exciting, and she probally sees you ass more of a good friend, with potiential on the side.

[Wesley Pipes]

For someone with the neame "Green Love" you don't sound too convinced in the concept of Love.

[DannyMan]

Have you ever been in love with a girl you have no chance with? It fuckin sucks... This is a very confusing situation but I need to get it off my chest and I really dont have anyone I can talk to about this particular problem... My brothers friend has been going out with this girl from about and hour and a half away, she has been staying with him and his family. They have a very fucked up relationship and I really dont think its going to last.

Now my brother and I are fairly close, our respective groups of friends hang out all the time. But they are all still 20. My friends and I are about 23, the girl in question is 22, so she'll come out to bars with us when we go. I have become fairly close to her and have completely fallen in love with her. She is the most amazing girl I have ever met. She's intelligent, and easy going, we have a ton in common, and shes one of the most beautiful girls I have ever known in my life. I mean I would do anything for this girl, I have never felt like this about anyone, ever before. Every now and again she will say or do something that makes me think she feels the same way I do, but I'm never sure if its my imagination or not.

Now here is the meat of the problem. Either she stays with this guy who takes her completly for granted and pays no attention to her, and I get to see her almost every day. Or they break up and she moves back home... I don't know whats worse. This is very much a lose/lose situation for me. Completely in love with a girl I don't think I can ever have. When shes around it makes me incrediblely happy and unbelievably depressed at the same time. I feel like I can't just give up on feelings like these but I cant do anything about them either...

I dont know if any of that made any sense to anyone but thanks for reading anyway, I can't really talk to any of my friends about this cause I don't want it to get back to this guy that I'm in love with his girlfriend.

Man I was in the same situation a little while ago.. except the girl's BF was one of my closest homie. I just stopped going to their house everyday (it's our group's main chill spot) and found other things to do.

Then I met another girl and we're going out. :thumbsup:

I suggest you forget about her if you don't plan on taking actions to make her yours. I'm not going to quote the fish in the ocean thing, but it's true man. I do feel your pain though man, sure isn't a happy feeling.

Good luck dogg

[lagstronaut]

Your lustfully inthacturated, with a broad who you cant hook up with. Get over it, and move on to another broad. She's teasing you, to see where you stand, and if your suitable to the kind she likes. Apperently, she likes someone more exciting, and she probally sees you ass more of a good friend, with potiential on the side.

How is he lustfully infatuated with the girl if he spends alot of time with her, they share the same interests, and he says he likes her alot because of her INTELLIGENCE and PERSONALITY. Lust has NOTHING to do with such qualities. Also, how in the hell do you gather that she is teasing him as a test to see if he can be a friend with benefits?

I'm sorry but your post is just fucked

[WimpyChimp]

Ok brother,ur a sox fan,we think alike,im a die hard one,from boston,now listen up,somehow get the two to brake up or tell her that she deserves better than the sleeze shes with,wen and if you get them to break up go out with her and have her move in with you or move in with her or have a long term relationship and eventually move with one another.simple as that.hope it all works out,ttyl

[Fengzi]

I agree with Green Love, it's infatuation not true love. Not trying to be mean or anything, just realistic. Love is something that is shared between two people, a bond that is built up over time. Like Dannyman I was in the same boat before and once you've been there you know the difference.

First thing to determine is why do you say you have no chance? Is it because she only sees you as a friend or, even worse, friend of a friend? If so, nothing else matters. Move on, you'll be better in the long run. If, however, she actually has romantic feelings towards you, find a way to work it out. Be creative and find a way that will cause the least amount of friction in your circle of friends. Either way, I can guarantee that a year or so from now, if your not with her, you'll have forgotten about her.