Quote Originally Posted by hunny
concernin ur post i noticed psycho's already posted but to answer summit else u said,,i noticed on the email u sent via zandor to the rest of the mods,,,NO mod over rides another mods ban etc,,i dunno where ppl get this idea from,,zan aint the boss as the rest of us aint,,we ALL make the desisions on here so 'suckin' up to one perticular mod dont work,,,,us mods have a job to do an u have no idea how many posts that r against the rules so to speak so get deleted..then get bitched at for doin our jobs...

I only emailed one Mod, yes. I never had the idea that one mod would override the decisions of another. I was definately not sucking up to the mod, or asking for an unban, as you've probably read in the email. In fact, I suspected the mods shared emails from users regarding such issues, which is why I only bothered to send one mod an email. I was, however disappointed at the lack of response. I felt ignored, especialy seeing as how my email was constructed tactfully and respectfully, yet apparently still didn't deserve a reply.

I wouldn't bother to go through so much trouble with these emails and messages if I didn't feel I had a valid point.

I was getting the feeling that I was banned, not for breaking any rules, or stepping out of line, or doing something that could be considered "bad for the site", but because I hit on the emotions of a single mod, or multiple mods for questioning the justifications for actions I felt were derived not in the interest of the forums, but for emotional/personal (perhaps pride) reasons, and I felt this was unfair, thus the point in going through all of this trouble in the first place.

(If I told someone to fuck off (flamed), or mentioned m.o.m., or tried to sell or promote products, or was racist, or threatened anyone, and I got banned for it, you wouldn't have heard a peep from me. This just feels like back in the dirty thirties when people questioned the actions of police officers and they got "attitude adjustments" for talking back. I use that as my example because of the ban message that read "come back with a better attitude", when I honestly felt as though my attitude was in check, and my post was respectfully written with tact and with good intention.)

I am absolutely empathetic, and agree with your whole statement hunny, and thank you for your response. I totaly agree with banning anything against the rules, my concern was with things not posted in the rules only.