My parents divorced when i was at a young age prob 6-7 years ago..Every year I wake up at my moms house (i live with her most of the time) do the present thing,then go to my grandparents house for family breakfast,presents and xmas morning stuff..Then that night i would go to my dads and santa would have dropped some presents there for me and my 3 siblings. Never did my dad come to my moms house xmas morning for presents and i was 7-8 at the time and i still had a wonderful christmas but maybe i understood divorce at a early age and just enjoyed christmas and gave thanks to my family and freinds. GOSH DOES ANYONE STAY MARRIED ANYMORE?...Good luck to you and your family, and do whats best for you and your kids.