It's because you're young. 14 is really young to be smoking, and I'm sure your friends see it the same way. I mean, they probably still tell their parents a lot of what's going on, so it's harder at that age. When you get to be around 17/18, you'll have fun with everyone you smoke out, and it probably won't be their first time. But it'll be fun, and that's all that's important.