Just talk to your dad since he knows where you coming from. Try to get your dad to talk to your mom, and at the same time be a little more cautious or cut back a little for the time being. Get some Rohto's, fuck visine. When I'm high and I put Rohto's in, it feels so cool. They work so much better than visine too. They burn a little, but it feels like it kind of refreshes me, or my eyes.