Mom!

[BongZoola]

Running away for weed? are you eths freshman? just stop for a while and pass a few drug tests and gain her trust back and make sure you dont ever get caught again. Stop making weed seem like an addiction instead of an enjoyable hobbie.

BongZoola Reviewed by BongZoola on 09-05-2006. Mom! Ok, I got caught and now im grounded... again. I'm tired of being grounded for smoking and I have nothing left to lose. My dad is a huge pot head so he lets me smoke but my mom is completely anti-drug. I got booted from camp cause I was caught so my mom hates me even more (how do you expect me to stay sober for 8 weeks?!). Any ideas on what to say to my mom would be greatly appreciated. I have nothing left to be grounded from so im just going to leave tommorrow and run away if nobody has any Rating: 5

[AlwaysBlazed]

Allright, I got a little trust back by apologizing. I am going to take a break, pass a few tests, then do it behind my parents back again like normal. Thanks for all your imput and I hope I can stay clean for a bit. I'll still be on the boards talking about pot and such. Maybe i'll take this time to shroom again, peace.

[mrdevious]

Alwaysblazed, seriously consider something....

If you're willing to ruin your relationship with your parents and run away from home, all because you want to keep blazing... it's time to admit to yourself, being that dependant on it, that you DO have a problem with marijuana. real drug problems aren't the commercial cliche of "I want to quit but I can't", real drug problems are there when you'll throw away everything else to not quit.

nothing is that important.

[AlwaysBlazed]

Yes, i've thought about it and thats why I am quitting for a while. I'm not going to become dependent again once I start up. It'll be like it used to be when I started blazing.

[BongZoola]

I wish you nothing but good luck and hope.

[AlwaysBlazed]

Ready for the exciting conclusion? I am grounded for 1 month (back to the origional punishment). I am allowed to basically do everything except go out. Once I'm ungrounded I am just going to go back to doing it behind my moms back :thumbsup: Peace out, thanks to those who tried to help.

[ThePurpleMan]

good take a break... for awhile when i was a freshman i stopped because i didnt think it was fun anymore and the break really helped me.. i might even do it agian now that im gonna be a jounior

[Boo360]

How about you grow up and actually stop smoking until you move out if its requested by a parent? I'd never listen to my mom if she told me to stop smoking but then again she ruined my life. On the other hand if my Dad asked me to stop I'd never touch it again until I moved out simply because I have that much respect for him.

[ThePurpleMan]

^^^ couldnt have said it better myself

[SpiritLevel]

Sounds a little odd. If my mom mentioned piss test at anytime since I started toking 13 years ago I would have had to have been seriously deranged. I was asked on the first night I toked what I had been smoking, I stoopidly said "why? what can you smell". That reply didn't land me in any bother. It was many years later; after going out early and coming in late stoned every night for months, my dad sat me down and told me to look at myself and how stoned I was and asked probing questions about what I wanted to do with my life and how much I was being disrespectful by having a cannbis habbit. Then he asked me if I sold weed. I didn't answer. He knew it was a yes. I think he found out because I was really careless. I'd bag my shit up at my mates house in front of his rents, I'm sure they mentioned it to my dad. At that point my smoking cover was blown. The reality is if you want to do stuff and get away with it you have to be 2 steps in front of everyone who you want to keep out of your personal life. Failing that, we all have to put up with the opinions of others when we involve them in our business.
Stop arguing and having bust ups. It takes two people to argue and fueling the fire when you don't wish to feel the heat is not a good idea. I am a private person in front of my rents. If they ever knew how much weed I cultivate annually they would have far too much to say regardless of me living in my own place or not. But so long as I show them signs that I am healthy and keeping out of trouble then they can only assume that I am doing good. Was that shyt?