Love question

[birdgirl73]

OK, Roulettedares, I think it's time you hear from a girl's point of view here (albeit a grownup girl). SmokingPlatypus was giving you good advice there when he recommended you not leap off the cliff and profess your love for her right away. If, as you said in your next post, you fear she might be likely to avoid you if you just try and talk to her, you'd really be blindsiding her with the "I love you" declaration. You have to go slow at saying that sort of thing so you don't jump the gun and say something prematurely affectionate before you've even developed a close friendship/early romance. Seriously, it might help you blow off some tension to get the "I love you" off your chest, but if she's the least bit awkward around you now and y'all aren't sure how you feel and respond around each other, I guarantee that telling her "I love you" is just going to make things more awkward.

Just go talk to her. As you begin to strike up friendship by talking regularly, do something sweet and romantic like write her a note. Or bring her a flower. Make her a CD. Do some other little gesture. She's not going to feel any doubt that you like her if you show her friendship and begin gradually making little romantic gestures. I know you guys these days tend to move a lot faster and straight into the hookup part of things, but if you could slow down a bit and start with friendship then build to romance/courtship, the relationship will benefit in the long run. It'll be more satisfying for both of you, and you won't scare her away before you've even stepped up to the first rung of the ladder. You know?

Think about it, OK? And good luck!

[FAllout]

Ask her if she tokes then go from there...

[Frivolous248]

Well i think on TUESDAY (3 day weekend lol) im gonna just say "hey i dunno how to say this but i love u" and see whatll happen.

...lol, I realllllllllly hope that wasn't your plan.

[royalHIGHness]

MORE SPECIFIC INSTRUCTIONS:
when around her make inuendos or jokes about being high...wishing you were high...ask her why her eyes are soooo red...
pretend like you need a bowl or help finding a bag bc its so dry or some shit...smoke her up...get munchies.....get foood...
friendship will blossom...

[lagstronaut]

...lol, I realllllllllly hope that wasn't your plan.

me and you both :stoned:

[hammertime]

You cant be nervous about talking to her, cause i used to be the same way and being nervous does get any chics, you just gotta talk to her and be friends with her andIf you know she smokes, you just gotta strike up some coversation, then some how slip smoking into chat and boom your smokin some weed with a cool chic! let us know how it goes, im pullin for you

[ThePurpleMan]

BRO ITS SO EASY.... just be like hey babby girl.. you wanna smoke a bowl? or if you dont have the cofindence i have just be like hey we should blaze some time.. its easy i promise... then when u2 are dating u can say it tis all thankz to the purple kid

[Roulettedares]

yeah honestly, she barely knows me dipshit. If i go up and say "hey u wanna blaze" chances are shell think im a stalker and the whole situation will get worse.

Im gonna just start following birdgirl's advice. Talk to her after class/during lunch/passing period/etc. I will start playing guitar for her (specifically songs she like), making her CDs, maybe even take her for free ice cream sometime (my sis works at baskin robins ). So It can only get better.

I jsut need a good firestarter, if u help me with that than i will appreciate ur help TONS

[LIP]

*clears throat...small cough...clears again*

When i read that i did it lol

[Samwhore]

just ask her to smoke a bowl and see how it goes from there