I did some reading and I think it's a girl, it's too dark outside now to take any pics but tomorrow, I'll get some good ones,. I think it got stressed from too much shade maybe, I keep it sort of hidden in my yard and it probaby ony get an hour of direct light, like I said I'll take some new pics tomorrow and if it does turn out to be a female I'll start a growing journal with pics. Thanks for the help everybody