"occasionly i have dreams just about little obscure things that make no sense at all then a couple days later it will happen but theres no significance to the situation at all like no anxiety about it becasue the situation means nothing"

I've never had a dream like that, but I have had amazing bits of syncronicity. I suppose they are just coincidence but sometimes they're enough to make you wonder. Like an example I read where a guy is driving down the road and the radio is playing that old jim croche song 'Meaner than a Junkyard Dog". (just a verse in it) He goes around the corner and there's a junkyard with 'home of the junkyard dog' on the sign. Then he drives home and there's a scroungy old pitbull in my yard. "Okay, the theme for today is junkyard dogs? What's up with that?"
Or I'm thinking about a quote by Spock from an old Star Trek episode. I turn on the TV and there's that episode playing right at the place where Spock is delivering that quote. I do it all the time with the radio. Singing a song in my head, kick on the radio and that's what is playing.

Then again, there's never any meaning I can associate to them. No significance behind it like rikkitikki said. It is funny though that they seem to come in groups at certain times. I always wondered if Jung was on to something with his syncronicity theories. I've always meant to study some of his work but he talks over my head in what little I've read.

Still, probably just statistical coincidence, but it's one of the very few things in the realm of the almost mystical that I've actually seen for myself, and can puzzle over without having to buy into some far out story from a very questionable source.