I'm not superficial or anything but my ex had gorgeous long hair while we were dating and about a year after we broke up he cut it and I eventually saw him again. I thought I was still crushin' on him and shit because of his personality but when we hung out and I saw him, hairless..I totally lost all spark. LOL anyway, point..you're not gonna be the same person if you chop off something you like..i.e HAIR