if you love him you'll do whatever it takes , my girlfriend lived 5000 miles from me for 4 years !! very long story , it all ended but hey while it was there it was as real as if she was next door. when love is in the heart the worlds a very small space. i always think its better to regret something you've done than to regret something you wish you'd done. let your heart rule once in a while its not always right but you get to see the best things !!! laters all , herbal.