Your the parents. Its your job to watch it. People today just think its ok to drop their baby off at some day care center and everything is fine and dandy. Well ya know what kid enjoy any moment they can spend with their parents. I know i did when i was young. I understand you didn't want to bring her with you to smoke, which is good, but couldn't you have just waited till later when the baby fell asleep or something? Anyways i know my post has seemed negative but good luck with this whole situation. And dont take the baby back there.